Love-Case Study!!!

Love is a favorite topic of mine…sometimes I think I can actually publish a paper on it. No it is not because I have had enough experience… thr is never enough experience when it comes to love right…. So when I was thinking about this post…. I thought of two scenarios…

1. In love Case 1- when you feel serene, calm and composed. You are in control. You know where it is going and how happy or unhappy you would be. It is predictable but in a good way. As I said you are in control of your life but more importantly you are in control of your feelings, your emotions… You know why you feel what and you know it is ok to feel that way. The kind of love, you can come back to and know he/she is waiting for you, is just thinking about you. That there is no one else above you. There is the comfort coz you know the person would never hurt you.
2. In love Case 2- when you are hopelessly in love. When I say hopelessly I mean you don’t know what’s happening. You are sure what you feel is love, but with that comes all these other feelings. Feelings u thought never existed. Its exciting, unpredictable again in a good way. It makes you think, it makes you analyze. The person makes you happy but he also makes you sad. Its not that he has power over you, but you willingly want to surrender to him. Want him to lead you to what you can only call the hope for eternal happiness, if something like that exists. You want to be his or her slave. His/her acceptance of love makes you exuberant and the cruel words break your heart!!! You know he/she will make you very happy and if he/she makes you sad, they would of course come and comfort you.

I am sure thr wud be an overlap in both the scenario…and I am not sure if I said what I wanted to say in the right way….Being in love isn’t about control anyways!!!

Now for somebody who is used to scenario number 1…would it be difficult to come to terms with the second case or vice versa… would there be resistance/ a general feeling of helplessness coz this is technically unfamiliar territory???

For somebody who is used to unprecedented excitement would he or she settle for predictable but reassuring love??? And for somebody who is used to the first scenario would she/he be dazed and confused…

Just a thought!!!!

Disclaimer: People please don’t try to read too much into what I have written. I am not trying to demean one situation over other. This is just an observation, which I thought would lead to an interesting post.